Friday, January 1, 2016

The anxiety of choosing a college

By Ryan Maloney, assistant women's volleyball coach



There are around 5,300 colleges in the United States today. If there are 50 majors to pick from at each college (I made that number up - it's often higher), the possibilities are endless.

It's easy to get caught up in the hype: will my daughter get a job in four years if she picks that college/major? Will she want to change majors? Are we missing out on a better option somewhere else? Is she going to be happy, safe, and successful?

It's the product of a culture with too many options. And as we know, too many options leads to paralysis: I'll put off making a decision because I don't want to make the "wrong" decision. Instead of the college search being an enjoyable process, it becomes something to avoid.


When I was 17 and picking a college, my mom took me to see Fredonia and one other college. I used the same application to apply. I ultimately chose Fredonia because I liked the way the campus made me feel. Everything worked out fine.

Is that an oversimplification? Probably. But it sure beats the alternative.

(More on picking a good college volleyball program)

(More on how freedom of choice is making us unhappy - Barry Schwartz's TED Talk, The Paradox of Choice)