Thursday, August 6, 2015

The necessity of travel: my summer in Italy, by Paulina Rein

“Buy experiences, not things.  Spending on experiences makes people happier than spending on things.  Things get broken and go out of style. Experiences get better every time you talk about them." ~ Jean Chatzky

I hear all the time from students that they want to backpack around Europe when they graduate, or move some place warmer, or get the heck out of their home town no matter what the cost. Growing up around Buffalo I heard it all the time: "Ugh, I just want to get out this city!" The grass is always greener on the other side.


After living in several different places I can confidently say that the desire to leave home is very natural and often a necessary part of growing up. Whether it be going to college far away, working in a different part of the country, or a short vacation, gaining different perspectives is a vital part to understanding the world's problems, and how to make them better (this is why university professors are encouraged to take sabbaticals several times throughout their careers).


So when any of our players express an interest in traveling abroad, we're happy to push them out the door for a while, so long as it's not during volleyball season! Our team captain, Paulina Rein, just returned from a month-long trip to Italy, and below she shares what she learned over the last 30 days:



So this summer wasn’t like the others I have had. I usually come home from Fredonia, leave all my things unpacked, head to the gym to get a new membership, and anxiously wait for my rec job to start up, but this summer I waited for a new adventure.

Over Christmas break after finishing The Vampire Diaries and obsessing over Damon, I thought it would be a good idea to be a little productive. I started to do some research on courses and colleges for when I graduate and came across a lot of informative websites.

A major emphasis on almost all of the websites was to study abroad if you have the opportunity to. It was always something I had dreamed of doing, but never really took the initiative to do research and find a program I would enjoy.

After hours of searching for the right program I came across “Summer in Rome”, through Stony Brook College. I then realized that one of my best friends; Fredonia Volleyball alumni Hannah Manning also did a summer program through Stony Brook. I called her and we talked for hours about the great experience you get through studying abroad and how much better of an experience it is if you go through a program where you do not know the people you will be traveling with.

The thought of traveling to a different country with people I would not know was a little scary, but after hearing about all the great aspects of traveling with a different school, I knew I had to send in my application asap.

After six months of waiting it was finally time to get on that nine-hour flight to Rome. Once I landed I knew it was going to be a whole new world for a month, but my excitement was out of the roof.

I was shocked to find out that the professors who were in charge of the program were all older men
and woman and I was very happy to find out that they were the people who would teach us and take us on our tours, because they actually grew up in Italy and truly knew everything about the culture.

They wanted us to have the best time we could possibly have, and they made sure of that by having something planned for us every single class.

Lets not talk about the classes though, but about all the amazing places I got to see and the people I was fortunate enough to meet. My top three favorite places were Sorrento, Cinque Terre, and Florence:

 Sorrento



Sorrento was one of our first day trips we took. After walking around Pompeii all day in the 102-degree weather we finally made our way to the beaches. I cannot even begin to explain the beauty of the mountains, the homes, shops, and water that surrounded me. It was something so beautiful that pictures could not do it justice. The water was so refreshing and I was able to take in all that I experienced that day, from walking on ancient Roman roads to riding on a stick shift bus through all the curvy hectic streets of Sorrento. Oh I was sitting in the very first seat of this bus ride, and that was very scary to see the little Vespa’s race around our bus on such tiny streets!

Cinque Terre 

Cinque Terre
Cinque Terre means 5 cities, so while you are there you take trains to go see all the five different cities. All the cities have breathtaking views of the homes and the water from up above the mountains. Me and a group of others stopped at the third city for some time, and found an awesome cove where people were swimming and sitting on rocks. We jumped off rocks, enjoyed some amazing fish, and climbed some pretty awesome mountains to get amazing views. This was just a wonderful day spent with wonderful people.


 Florence 


Night time on the river in Florence
Florence was one of the last places we were able to see. One night while we were in Florence me and another girl in the program Emma wondered the streets and walked along the river when we came across a little café that was hidden but sat right along the side the river. The sun was setting as we sat there and drank cappuccinos thinking this was so great. However, what was extra special about this night was the woman that we met as we sat there. She was just something else, and somewhat reminded me of Ryan Maloney, If you know him I think you can kind of understand where I am coming from and possibly get an idea of what this woman was like. Me and Emma stayed in our room taking in the amazing night and finishing it off with the Lizzie McGuire movie.


Visiting Roman Forum
I now suggest that everyone, if you can, to study abroad. I learned so much and saw such beauty in things that a lot of people only see in videos or in pictures. You meet amazing people that you create a different sort of bond with, and you enjoy many beautiful places together. Studying abroad taught me a lot about patience and how to look at things from a different perspective. This program may not have been set up specifically for my major at Fredonia, but I was able to learn a lot more than I ever could have imagined. Oh and last but not least, lets not forget about the amazing pasta and gelato :)